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Should I Buy a Gift for My Boyfriend’s Birthday if We Just Started Dating?

Should I Buy a Gift for My Boyfriend’s Birthday if We Just Started Dating?

Written by: Make Memento

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We all know that tackling those big ‘Should I…?’ and ‘How do I…?’ questions about social occasions and gift-giving can be tricky.


That’s why Thalia, our go-to expert in gift-giving and social etiquette here at Make Memento, is here to help you figure it all out! Whether it’s deciding on a gift for a new boyfriend's birthday or planning a special celebration, making decisions about life's big events and special moments can feel overwhelming. But don't worry, whatever the question, Thalia's got you covered!


So, let’s dive into today’s reader's question...Should I Buy a Gift for My Boyfriend’s Birthday if We Just Started Dating?

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Reader's Question: Should I Buy a Gift for My Boyfriend’s Birthday if We Just Started Dating?

Hi Thalia,


My boyfriend's birthday is coming up, and we've only been dating for a few weeks. Should I buy him a gift? I don't want to come on too strong or seem too casual. What's the best approach in a new relationship?

Thalia's says...

Thalia, our expert in gift-giving and social etiquette, says: When you're in a new relationship, it's natural to feel unsure about giving a gift. The key is to keep it light and thoughtful. A small, simple gift is a great way to show you care without overwhelming the situation. It doesn't have to be extravagant—just something that feels genuine and considerate.

Choosing the Right Gift for a New Relationship

Thalia explains: Think about something that shows you've been paying attention to his interests or hobbies. You could consider a personalised leather keyring, a stylish engraved wallet card, or a customised keepsake box. These gifts are thoughtful, meaningful, and appropriate for a new relationship. The goal is to pick a gift that says, 'I’m thinking of you,' without going overboard.

Gift Ideas for a New Boyfriend

Thalia’s Top Gift PicksChoose a personalised photo frame with a special memory, a bespoke wooden bottle opener, or a handcrafted leather bookmark. These gifts are unique and perfect for making a heartfelt yet subtle impression.

Alternatives to a Gift

Thalia’s Advice: If you're unsure about giving a physical gift, consider doing something together instead. Plan a fun date, like a casual coffee outing, a movie night, or a day exploring a local attraction. It's a great way to celebrate without putting too much pressure on the situation.

Thalia's Closing Tips

Thalia Says: Keep it simple and heartfelt. The best gifts in a new relationship are those that reflect thoughtfulness without feeling too serious.


Finding the right balance in a new relationship is key. Whether you choose a small gift or a shared experience, we have plenty of options to help you make the perfect gesture!


Explore our range of unique gifts at Make Memento to find the perfect pick!

Make His Birthday Memorable with the Perfect Gift!

Ready to find the ideal gift for your new boyfriend’s birthday? Explore our collection at Make Memento! From personalised keepsakes to unique accessories, we have a range of thoughtful gifts that are perfect for this special occasion.


Visit our online store today to find something that shows you care without overdoing it!

About Make Memento

About Make Memento

Make Memento is your go-to destination for expertly handcrafted, personalised gifts. With an emphasis on creativity and attention to detail, our UK-based workshop offers a delightful range of handmade items, shipping across the UK. Whether you're seeking a unique keepsake box, a custom keyring, or something else entirely, each piece is thoughtfully designed to capture your memories and sentiments. Visit  Make Memento to explore our collection of creative, personalised gifts, perfect for every occasion and recipient.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I buy a gift for my boyfriend's birthday if we've just started dating?

Yes, but keep it light and thoughtful. In a new relationship, a small, meaningful gesture can show you care without overwhelming him. Opt for something simple, like a personalised keepsake from that aligns with his interests or hobbies.

What are good birthday gift ideas for a new boyfriend?

Choose something that feels thoughtful but not too serious. Consider a personalised notebook, an engraved keyring, or a custom photo frame. These gifts are personal yet subtle, making them ideal for a new relationship.

How much should I spend on a gift for a new boyfriend?

You don’t need to spend a lot—aim for something under £20-30. The goal is to choose a gift that’s thoughtful and reflects your appreciation without appearing too extravagant or intimate.

What could I do instead of buying a gift for a new boyfriend?

If you’re unsure about gifting, consider planning an experience together, like a casual coffee date, a fun outing, or a movie night. These shared experiences can be memorable without the need for a physical gift.

Is it too soon to give a gift in a new relationship?

It’s not necessarily too soon, but the key is to keep the gift light and thoughtful. Choose something that reflects your growing connection without making the gesture feel too serious. A small token can strike the perfect balance.

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